Been through the same BS with the courts with my severely disabled daughter. There is no shortage of bias sexist male hating women like yourself who automatically call men jerks without fully understanding the situation. Read what this man has written before you chime in with your ignorant comment.
I am the custodial parent of a beautiful 18 year old who is wheel chair bound and physically not mentally disabled child. The day she turned 18 the father called and stopped child support and has not paid dime after. He provides healthcare for my child but when asking to change her name for it to match medicaid he said I needed to choose his insurance or medicaid. He has not seen this child since she was 6 he does not understand the care and unending attention is needed for her. I want to file a motion so she is provided for and I with a family of my own cannot even return back to school to finish my career goal due to extensive care needed for her. He does make way more than I do and could provide for her while I take care of her. He refuses to pay anything even existing bills for he has refused to pay. I am at wits end and want to do something but all I read is that I should have before she turned 18. I applied for disabiltiy the monday after she turned 18 and as of this date she still doesnt recieve any monetary benefits. If you can advise me what is best it would be much appreciated.
Hi. It gives me a lot of pain when I read about conflicts between teenagers and parents leading to relationship issues in the family. I too have a daughter aged 17 and a son aged 11. Many a times I feel that its easy to get along with my son because he is not yet a teenager. My daughter has changed a lot in the past three years, showing disrespect for all the elders who care for her in the family. She sometimes behaves very badly with the little one also. I am not very strict and so is my husband. We agree to most of her wishes but then how to make her understand that as in school, we too have some rules to be followed at home. I have my parents who have stayed with us from the birth of their grand children and took very good care of them and what are they getting back now. Nothing in return they expect, but at least this girl should show some respect and value what they say. As of now, only her friends are important. She is also threatening us that she will go away from home very soon.
I appreciate what you said about underlying needs driving the behaviour. I suddenly have my 18-year-old and their significant other living with me due to Corvid-19 ending university early and there is a constant tinge of dislike and disdain if I give a suggestion, try to coordinate use of the kitchen or ask for help with dishes.
well my advice well not advice more like plans are first plan A: ask if I can talk to my cousin/anyone. plan B: get good grades, be good at school, get a hoppy that not requires your phone or maybe join a club at school. plan C: apologize for what you did and promise to never do it again. plan D: beg for your phone back.
ok so i have a long-distance relationship with this guy its not really long distance he lives 2 hours away but i never met him and its none of our faults if it was up to me we would have already met but i got my phone taken for sending you no (only top w/ a bra tho haha im a girl btw) and i got it taken since april which is dumb bc im 16 bout to turn 17 and moving out in dec to go to college so honestly its not that bad bc im boutta move out i need something to keep me company iv been so bored and like im alr depressed and shi i just want to do sum so bad tht it would pss my mom off ik that sounds dumb but like why not what she gone do wop me bruh i prolly sound like a bratt i promise im not im actually a good kid i mean HELLO im going to college i get all as and bs so yk but i did this one bad thing and i get my phone taken for 3+ months like MMMMMmMmmMmMm anyways sum1 reply to this an give me ideas on what should i do abt this and dnt be a sb and tell me im a bratt thank you very much ! oh also my sister has done worse and my mom dont care
please luna- your gf cheated on you with ur bsf?- im kinda in that situation for the past 8 months or so- but my gf didnt cheat on me ;-; instaed she wrote to me so when i could talk to her again ik whats going on.
My parents are somewhat like that but I just grew out of being scared and did the things I wanted, stuff that I wanted t d was regular stuff like what u said or just hang out. Luckily you have one more year to deal with your parents ya kno?
oh my god everything was working out perfectly with my trap phone but i forgot to use a vpn when i connected to the wifi this one time, and it showed the device i was on are you joking . and my bank account allows my dad to see what i buy on my apple account and i been knew i dont know why i didnt think about it at the time im so stupid. allthough, i have a lie for one of those, how could i be so stupid to where 2 small mistakes could mess the entire thing up. now i have nothing again he just had to be some crazy secretive computer guy huh
you really wont know what its like to have strict parents until they go through your phone every single day no matter what like they dont even have to have a reason i lost my phone for a year and a half and i wasnt allowed to have anything connected to the internet like they took my tv and my door away. I finally got my phone back about a month ago and they took it again about a week or 2 ago and life isnt anything without a phone. like say one of my friends wants to hang out ha forget it i aint even allowed to walk down my street when im by myself like if i wanna go to my friends it takes abt 2 weeks of begging and then they have to meet they parents and everything else like they rly needa chill. my parents split up and my mom used to be rly strict but then my dad got with his gf and now she acts like she runs my life when she not anything to me( i kinda hate her) like my dad switched up on me i was allowed to do whatever like he aint ever care(when he was around, ya he left i aint have a dad most of my life) but now he acting like he was around forever and like he can control my life. idk yall pls tell me someone relate to at least part of this cause im rly gonna lose my mind
I did some horrible things on Social Media and now I cannot go on my socials, as my dad took the accounts and locked me out of them. He also banned them from the network for the time being. I plan to convince them to let me get it back, as all my contacts and friends are there. I am legit getting panic attacks because of this whole mess. I do not know how long I will be grounded for. If someone reads this can you answer on what I should say?
. I am continuing from above. Like I am not with the I cannot live without the phone attitude but the thing is what should I do as I cannot talk to anyone, as Discord and Instagram are off-limits, and those were my go-to places to talk, but my behavior there has been considered bad. What should I do to convince them to let me get it back like two-three, maybe four, five, maybe even six months. This is the first time I have gone without social media in a long time, and it is scary and boring. I was here to look for activities to do so I can lose focus on the socials and focus on my school. Right now I am doing my schoolwork more and trying to be a better person and never repeat my behavior again.
Being able to spot their harmful behaviour is the first step to minimising their impact. You might not be able to change what they do, but you can change what you do with it, and any idea that toxic somebody in your life might have that they can get away with it.
Julie, I do not know if you still read this message board. I just wanted to reach out and tell you how much your story has moved me and how much I am sorry that you are treated this way by your abusive husband.It will be best for your mental and physical health to divorce and live in peace. It will be difficult, as you say your daughter has been confused about whose fault the situation is. But with time, as she matures, she will see things for what they are.
I love you all. I love you just the way you are. You are perfectly wonderful people and so willing to share your life and I consider you my family now and my friends, and I believe each and everyone of you. It is real what is happening and you are real too and deserve to find happiness. I believe you and i believe in you. You are the Salt of the Earth in my eyes. So there! ? *hugs* to all of you, a hundred each day.
Im curre tlt in a relationship where my partner displays some of these habits.He constantly blames me for things that I either had nothing to do with or was out of my hands.He also constantly says i should leave him and why am I still with him.It hurts me alot because I love him and when he is kind and sweet its amazing.but recently he basically said you couldnt wait to be single but then followed saying he cherishes our time together but what we have is going to end soon and i dont choose to believe it will happen.It makes.me.so.anxious and stressed to the point that I cant sleep and this is a frequent thing he says.He also never likes anything I suggesy or say but gets mad when I dont say or suggest anything.What should I do?
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